So you want to rekindle the spark in your relationship, but don’t know where to start?
No time, no energy, kids, work and life is busy! Don’t worry, my desire coaching framework is easy and sustainable for your busy, daily life. I gently invite you to explore YOUR desire on your own terms, and bring it back to your partner at your own pace.
No pressure, no expensive dates or lingerie.
Just simple solutions that you can incorporate into your home and your life.
If you’re ready to light that spark and start having some fun again with your husband in the bedroom, then sign up for a one hour session with me
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this isn't for you if
I want this
You aren't willing to try easy tools or techniques
You don't want to discuss intimacy
You don't want to get to the root cause of intimacy challenges
You feel like sexual intimacy is not important
You've lost the spark, and don't care about getting it back
You are ready to light the spark again!
You need some extra support and ideas
You are open to trying new tools, techniques
Intimacy has been a problem, and you want to change that
You want to improve your relationship
You aren't afraid to create an intimacy plan
You are shy, but open to talk about intimacy at your level of comfort
work with me if
Each desire coaching session will be uniquely tailored to you and your circumstances.
THIS IS GREAT!
I Need this
as a coaching client you will recieve all 3 of these for free!
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Do you feel like sex with your husband at the end of the day is a “should?”
This is a terrible way to feel, because I’ve been there.
My husband would come to bed and even though I was tired or would prefer to read or do something else, I would get stuck in the mental calculation of “how long has it been?”
“I should initiate tonight- I guess.” I used to keep track of the number of times it happened to make sure we weren’t falling into a sexless marriage, but without real desire.
This doesn’t have to be you.
I invite you to come and explore for yourself- independent of your partner- what truly lights your fire so we can keep your flame sparked and burning! By keeping your own desire alive, it is much easier to bring it back to your husband.
Through my desire coaching framework, we will work through my step-by-step process, including my free tip sheets, to bring that spark back to your relationship.
A: No. Desire coaching is an excellent complement to therapy if you're already working with a therapist.
I fully support therapy and encourage working with a therapist if you feel this is the right solution for you.
A: Not a problem! We will work together to refine solutions and strategies that are palatable, fun and enjoyable for both you and your partner.
Remember, a no is a yes to something else! We will work to find your joint yes, together.
A: This is an important aspect of desire. We will explore at your pace and your level of comfort. All the language that I use and suggestions I make will be fully adapted to you.
If shame is a fundamental barrier, we will work to get to the root causes of shame, if you choose to.
A: Tantric practices are simple and involve breathwork and non-sexual touch. None of my solutions require that you subscribe to a specific belief system.
I am comfortable working with clients of all different backgrounds and will adapt to your level of comfort.
A: 100% !! I am absolutely LGBT+ friendly and will look forward to supporting you and your partner(s).
I am also ENM (ethical non-monogamy) friendly and will support whatever relationship structure you have.